Meet Marta
Hi, I am Marta!
I am the founder of Gates to Pleasure and the designer and producer of the ‘Gates to Pleasure’ Yoni jewelry line. As a tantric and orgasmic coach, I am a certified teacher of Tao Tantric Sacred Femininity Arts and in a certification process of Bodysex pleasure method.
My approach combines the finest spiritual and energetic sexual practices with pragmatic bodywork, enabling every woman to unlock her full sexual potential, attain sexual liberation, and harness her self-healing power.
I believe that every woman deserves to be sexually liberated and proud of her body
It’s crucial to prioritize what feels right and important in our sexual journeys, such as understanding our relationship with orgasm and recognizing the profound power that lies beyond it. I wish I had been educated about the significance of my sexuality when I was in my 20s. I wish someone had emphasized how vital sexual energy is for a woman’s health, her relationships, and her overall well-being. Every woman possesses multi-orgasmic potential, and this orgasmic energy holds immense creative and energetic power. Our energy can attract and manifest the realities we desire, with sexual energy being a fundamental source. If only every woman understood how to cultivate a fulfilling sexual life, tap into her multi-orgasmic nature, and foster happy relationships. My personal journey involved years of studying Tao, Tantra, and Bodysex. These teachings transformed my life and relationships, and I’m passionate about sharing these insights with others.
What Makes Me Different From Other Sex Coaches?
Sexuality is a vast topic, and studying it can take years, as there’s an expansive sea of knowledge to acquire. It also demands a lot of practice to master. Through my years of study, I’ve distilled what works best for me—what has had the most profound impact on my life in every aspect. I’ve managed to structure this knowledge into ‘gates’ to transmit it to every woman in a straightforward, pragmatic manner. What I’ve discovered is that ancient energetic, spiritual practices (such as Tao and Tantra) combined with powerful bodywork (like Bodysex) yield the best results. This is what I want to share with women, so they can experience the same transformative journey I did.
"Sex is energy. So I will not say sexual energy, because there is no other energy. Sex is the only energy you have got."
If you are curious, I am happy to share my journey with you
The first time I heard about women’s sexuality and sexual energy was more than a decade ago. I was introduced by Larisa Renar (psychologist, biologist, and coach, author of the book ‘Circle of feminine power’) to concepts like feminine and masculine energies, which piqued my interest and led me to delve deeper into the subject. I learned that each of us possesses both feminine and masculine energies and that we can cultivate a relationship between them. I immersed myself in studying ancient Eastern wisdom—written in Cyrillic—about the balance of these energies and their impact on our lives as women.
At that time, I was navigating the aftermath of my first divorce and questioning my future direction. Dissatisfied with the traditional husband/wife model, I sought liberation. I realized that I had been predominantly operating from masculine energy, making it challenging to maintain a harmonious relationship. As I continued studying and applying what I learned, I found that the more I practiced, the more I began attracting what I desired in my life. Not only did I secure a fantastic job, but I also began to draw men towards me, like magnets being pulled into my world.
how i discovered Tantra
This journey led me to meet my current husband and partner. We’ve been together for more than 12 years now. However, in 2012, I embraced the joy of motherhood, and the whirlwind of family life began. I was working 10 hours a day and, upon returning home, had to care for our young son, manage household responsibilities, and juggle everything else that comes with being a mom, wife, and full-time employee. Time for intimacy in our relationship, let alone personal time for my own sexuality, became scarce. I realized that continuing down this path could jeopardize both my health and my relationship. I knew change was imperative. That’s when I discovered Tantra.
In 2018, my husband and I embarked on a transformative journey studying ‘Sky Dancing’ Tantra as part of LET cycles offered by excellent teachers: Laurence Heitzmann and Laurent Lacoste in the south of France. The renowned teachings of Margot Anand and Osho completely reshaped me, revitalized our relationship, and altered the course of my life. We gained profound insights into jealousy, attachment, possession, and the personal responsibility we each hold for our own sexuality and happiness. It became abundantly clear: no one but you is responsible for your sexuality, for your orgasms.
This realization was freeing and truly liberating!
Since then, we have continued with our Tantra journey, being part of LET training as a couple. With each passing year, I find myself becoming more self-confident and happier, and our relationship has only grown stronger—almost unbelievably so. I am immensely grateful that my partner and I embarked on this journey together. We continue to grow side by side, supporting each other without any sense of ownership. Every day, we discover the beauty of this shared bond. The more I embrace responsibility for my sexuality, the more passion infuses our intimate life, enhancing the overall happiness of our family.
I knew I have to spread this knowledge to other woman
As time passed, I observed many friends experiencing divorces, infidelities, or endless arguments. Some female friends, even in their 40s, struggle to find the right partner. Many women remain unaware of the immense power and impact of their sexual energy.
Thus, I ventured across the globe to learn from world-class teachers about women’s sacred sexuality: Tao, Tantra, and Bodysex. I have been traveling to destinations such as Central America (specifically Nicaragua), the US (New York), and France. My goal was to understand how to disseminate this knowledge effectively. I firmly believe that every woman can find happiness, success, and sexual liberation. Every woman has multi-orgasmic potential. Once a woman grasps the power of her sexuality and orgasmic energy, she can achieve, cultivate, and attract whatever she desires—with the universe backing her.
i fall in love with tao and jade egg
I started to explore Tao and sacred femininity arts, with Minke de Vos the author of ‘Tao Tantric Arts for Women’. Minke is the world’s leading Tao facilitator of sacred femininity and jade egg, she has been co-teacher with Mantak Chia for over 25 years. Before that, I had no idea how powerful and healing Tao is, and how much it can help the woman to activate her sexual and orgasmic potential. Taking Minke’s teachings, I also met Shashi Solluna, author of ‘Tantra made easy’. I studied with Shashi and Minke for many months and spent together with them one month in Nicaragua where I got certified as Tao Tantric Arts Sacred Femininity Facilitator I discovered the power of Yoni egg and breast massage, as well as many tantric and gestalt practices, which changed the way I experience my body and pleasure forever. Here I obtained knowledge about sacred feminine rituals, including jade eggs, Yoni massage, tantric massages, breast massages, Qi Gong, and spiritual awakening, which I am now bringing into my teachings to the world.
Discovering Betty dodson, a mother of self-pleasure
In the meantime, I came across the works of Betty Dodson. Betty was at the forefront of feminism in America since the 70s and is called the mother of masturbation and self-pleasure. She said that the clitoris and clitorial system is the primary sexual organ for women. She has spent her life educating and teaching women about how to orgasm, what women’s sexuality is, and sexual anatomy. She was also the one teaching women about self-responsibility for being a (multi) orgasmic woman. I started to study the Bodysex method and learned how to become a sexually independent orgasmic woman. It has changed my life ever since. I decided to become a Bodysex leader, to further spread this knowledge and became a certified Bodysex Associate. I went to New York, which was part of my certification program and participated as an assistant to Carlin Ross and Laura Bogush in running the Bodysex workshop. I am now finalizing the Bodysex leader program with the Carlin Ross and Betty Dodson Foundation.
Through Betty’s guidance, I forged a profound connection with my body and Yoni, learning to take pride in it and be attuned to its needs. Drawing from this inspiration, I developed the ‘Gates to Pleasure’ jewelry line. This collection allows wearers to maintain a constant connection with their Yoni, wearing it as a symbol of pride. The gemstones incorporated into the designs fortify the wearer’s feminine and sexual power, making them feel more robust and empowered. I dream of a world where every woman takes pride in her Yoni, seeing it as her superpower rather than a hidden, overlooked aspect ‘down there’.
I Had To Find Out The Truth About G-Spot And Ejaculation
Another perspective on orgasm and sexuality, I got from the deep teachings of Deborah Sundahl, who was a world-leading specialist on G-spot and women ejaculation. I started a certification program with her and have experienced G-Spot and ejaculation awakening in a workshop led by her certified student Sananda in the south of France.
continuing on spiritual path
As I learn and grow on this journey, I am now studying Tao and Qi Gong with Wendy Lang in the course of ‘Shamanic Chinese Medicine’ at the Empty Mountain Institute. Those teachings are opening new gates to my physical, energetic, and spiritual worlds. They are based on the wisdom of Chinese medicine rooted 5000 years back (before the invention of written language) and practiced by shamans Wu and Wu-Yi.
I would like to thank all my teachers for sharing their wisdom and guiding me through the sacred sexuality, Tao, and Tantra journeys. I am on the mission to pass and spread this knowledge to the world and other women, who can open their gates to this beautiful and awakening experience. I know it will change their life, as it has changed mine.
Thank you to Minke de Vos, Margot Anand, Laurence Heitzmann, Laurent Lacoste, Betty Dodson, Carlin Ross, Laura Bogush, Shashi Solluna, Deborah Sundahl, Sananda, Wendy Lang, Larisa Renar, and all the other masters who have been with me through this journey.
I hope the same for you
To the woman reading this: understand that you are normal, even if you face struggles. You possess the potential to achieve the same transformative experiences I have had. It’s our choice and responsibility to begin uncovering our true selves and our sexuality, and in doing so, elevate our lives. Just as we educate ourselves about diet, yoga, and detox, it’s equally essential to learn about our sexuality and sexual energy. This understanding is among the most rewarding and self-healing knowledge a woman can acquire. I encourage you to take small steps at your own pace. Take the time to feel and observe the changes within yourself, note how you feel in your body, and watch the evolution of the relationships around you. Even if sexuality seems relegated to the backburner in your life or feels challenging to embrace, I am confident in your potential to embark on your sexual, tantric journey and achieve the heights I have reached. I’m here to guide and support you, offering the best knowledge and practices I’ve gathered.